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Couples Connection & Intimacy Bundle

$80.10 $89.00
Create a life by design, not default
Includes Life Designer for Couples, Get Closer Couples and Get Closer Intimacy Edition. A full-spectrum relationship bundle that supports emotional connection, intentional growth, and intimacy. Life Designer for Couples helps you design your future together. Get Closer Couples deepens your emotional bond through meaningful conversation. Intimacy Edition adds playful, honest, and spicy questions about desires, boundaries, and curiosity. For couples who want to feel closer and more alive in their relationship, both emotionally and physically.

Life Designer for Couples is a shared experience (one journal for two people) to help you shape the life you want to build together. Whether you’re entering a new chapter or feeling ready to reconnect and realign, this journal gives you the space to reflect and get clear around what truly matters to both of you.

  • Create a 10-year life vision in just a few focused, intentional sessions
  • Explore who you are individually and how you show up as a couple
  • Gain clarity during major transitions or moments of change
  • Turn vague conversations about the future into something concrete
  • Align on what fulfillment, success, and balance mean for both of you
  • Move out of feeling disconnected, stuck, or unsure about what’s next
  • One journal for two people
  • Five chapters
  • Undated, 100+ unique prompts
  • 117 pages
  • 100% recycled, compostable, and FSC certified paper
  • Bound in 100% cotton fabric
  • 100% cotton sew bind
  • One 100% cotton ribbon
  • B5 size
  • Made in China
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How to Use the Life Designer Journal for Couples

A guided, science-backed experience to help you create your next chapter as a couple.

Designed to write a little or a lot with guiding prompts, thought starters, and tips.

Some pages are designed for solo reflection before you share with each other. Others are collaborative from the start.

We have left conversation starters and ideas for you to discuss further.

The journal contains 5 pillars. Complete them in order as each builds on the last.

When life calls for a redesign, start here.

This is one journal for two people, designed to be used together.

You’ll move through guided exercises that invite reflection first and conversation second. Some pages are filled out individually, then discussed. Others are collaborative from the start. Many include prompts that help you talk through what you’ve written, so insights don’t stay on the page, they turn into real understanding.

You talk. You write. You listen. You design.


Who Is The Life Designer For

This journal is for couples who don’t want to drift into the future by default.

→ If you love each other but feel like life has gotten busy, and you haven’t really talked about where you’re headed lately.

→ If you’re at a transition point – engaged, married, moving, starting a family, changing careers – and want to make sure you’re building the next chapter together, not separately.

→ If you keep having the same conversations without real clarity, and wish you could finally get aligned on what you want and why.

→ If you’re ready for a fresh start together but don’t know where to begin, and want a shared direction you can return to.

 

Made Sustainable

→ This journal has been designed with the environment in mind

→ 100% plastic-free, fully recyclable, and biodegradable

→ Uses industry-leading cotton thread for the sew binding, removing polyester (synthetic and plastic) stitching commonly used in book production

→ Printed on recycled and FSC certified paper and is bound in 100% natural fabric

What Is Inside

You’ll move through five guided pillars that build clarity step by step:

  1. Who We Are: Explore your individual stories and understand how they come together in your relationship.
  2. Our Mindset & Beliefs: Uncover the beliefs and patterns influencing how you think, communicate, and make decisions together.
  3. Our Core Values: Clarify what matters most to each of you and define the values that guide your life as a couple.
  4. Our Ideal Day: Define how you want your everyday life to look, feel, and flow, together.
  5. Our Life Vision: Step back and create a clear, shared vision for the next 10 years.

Based on Design Thinking

At the heart of this journal is the philosophy of design thinking, a mindset rooted in curiosity, creativity, and experimentation. It encourages you to explore different ideas, try things out, reflect, and evolve.

This journal isn’t just about one voice, it’s about both. Take turns, listen deeply, and allow each partner’s truth to exist on the page. The magic is in the co-creation.

The Life Designer Guide

  1. Follow Your Instincts: Let your gut feelings guide your entries. Write down your spontaneous thoughts and ideas.
  2. Go at Your Own Pace: Whether you do one prompt a week or dive into a section in one sitting, move through the journal in a way that feels natural for your rhythm as a couple.
  3. Be the Designer: Be bold, visionary, and experimental. Use markers, colored pencils, or whatever inspires your imagination. Have fun.
  4. Expect the Unexpected: You might laugh, get emotional, feel stuck, or suddenly feel inspired. Stay open to whatever comes up together.
  5. Treat It Like a Ritual: Light a candle, make your favorite drink. Let this be your time to connect, dream, and check in with each other.

It’s a guided journal you complete together to create a shared vision for your life. Instead of just talking about logistics or next steps, it helps you explore what you actually want as a couple, emotionally, practically, and long-term.

You fill out the journal together. Some prompts are designed for you to answer together, and others you each fill out and then share with each other. The mix makes it a fun date night experience and memory keepsake hold onto, years later.

It’s neither! It’s meant to be something you actually enjoy doing together. The journal helps you dream about your future and talk about things that matter, without it feeling heavy. While there certainly is an element of planning a 10-year life vision, it’s more creative and open than a rigid planner. The questions go deep in a good way, so a lot of couples say it feels therapeutic but in a warm, connecting, fun date-night kind of way.

It helps you understand each other better, feel more supported, and get clear on what you want as a couple for your dream life together. It’s especially helpful for:

 • Talking about your future without it turning into pressure • Understanding how your partner wants to be supported • Getting out of feeling societal pressure or expectations • Feeling more aligned and intentional • Creating a shared dream instead of separate ones

Yes! This journal was made for meaningful gifting moments. It’s a thoughtful gift for couples who are:

 • Getting engaged or newly engaged • Getting married • Celebrating an anniversary • Valentine’s Day gift • Thinking about life before kids • Starting a new chapter together • Navigating a life change • Wanting a more intentional relationship

It’s the kind of gift that says, “I believe in our future.”

At Intelligent Change, we’re dedicated to making sure your order arrives quickly, safely, and with care. Below, you will find an overview of our shipping process, estimated timelines, and our commitment to you throughout the entire process.

 

Worldwide Shipping

We’re delighted to offer worldwide* shipping from one of our three fulfillment centers located in the USA, the United Kingdom, and the Netherlands. Express shipping options are available at checkout for your convenience.

Please refer to the full list of countries that we do not ship to at this time, at the bottom of the page. We’re actively working to expand our shipping options to these countries in the future.

 

Free Shipping Eligibility

Enjoy free shipping on U.S. orders between $85–$500, U.K. orders between £55–£500, and EU orders between €55–€500. Orders shipped with Free Shipping will be sent using an economy carrier.

 

Order Processing Time

Orders are processed shortly after checkout and generally ship within a few hours to 48 hours of purchase. Bulk orders of 40 or more units require 3–4 business days for order processing.

During high-demand periods—such as major sales or holiday seasons—processing times may extend up to 4 business days. We appreciate your patience and understanding during these times.

Providing incorrect or incomplete address details may delay processing by 1–2 business days. To avoid any issues, kindly double-check your shipping and billing information before completing your order.

Once your order ships, you’ll receive a confirmation email with your tracking information so you can follow your order closely. Please allow 24–48 hours for the tracking to update. 

 

    Shipping & Delivery

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    Taxes and duties differ by region. Please refer to your location below for specific tax and duty information:

    United States

    Intelligent Change charges a sales tax for all US orders. These collected taxes are mandated by the local state governments. Intelligent Change in no way benefits from this and directly pays this amount collected to the state.

    United Kingdom

    Orders being shipped to the UK (from our UK warehouse) will have a 20% VAT included in the price. These collected taxes are mandated by the UK government. Intelligent Change in no way benefits from this and directly pays this amount collected by the UK government.

    Europe

    With our Netherlands warehouse, any orders being shipped to a country in the European Union should not incur any added fees for customs and duties at the time of delivery.

    Canada, Mexico, Asia & Other International Countries

    As your order is shipped DDU (Delivered Duty Unpaid), orders being shipped internationally may incur duties, fees and import taxes upon delivery. This charge is determined by your local customs authority and must be paid to your local carrier or government to receive your order. These fees are not collected by Intelligent Change.


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    Yes! We are happy to offer Shop Pay Installments to US residents at this time (for orders between $50 USD and $3,000 USD).


    How does Shop Pay Installments work?

    Shop Pay gives you the option to pay in full at checkout, or to split your purchase into four equal, bi-weekly, interest-free installment payments. When available, Shop Pay Installments is an option for orders between 50 USD and 3,000 USD.

    There are no additional charges, interest rates, or late fees, and your credit score isn't affected. Shop Pay Installments is powered and serviced by Affirm and is only available in some stores.


    Am I eligible to use Shop Pay Installments?

    To use Shop Pay Installments, you need to live in the United States and register for Shop Pay. When choosing Shop Pay Installments, the following limitations apply:

    • You cannot pay for an order if the order includes currency in any form, including virtual and digital currency, like gift cards.
    • Orders need to be between 50 USD and 3,000 USD, including shipping and taxes.
    • If you change your Shop Pay phone number, then you also need to update this with Affirm before you can pay for another purchase using Shop Pay Installments.
    • Shop Pay Installments does not accept Capital One cards, prepaid debit cards, or prepaid credit cards.

        How do I manage my Shop Pay Installments payments?

        Your Shop Pay Installments orders appear in the Home tab of the app. You can tap on an order for a summary of your repayment status. Tap View installments for more detailed info about past and upcoming payments.


        Make a manual payment on a Shop Pay Installments order:

        You can make a manual payment on a Shop Pay Installments order in the Shop app.

        1. From the Home tab, tap the order you want to make a payment for.

        2. Tap View Installments, and then tap Make a payment.

        3. Select an option in the Amount to pay section.

        4. In the Card section, select the card you want to pay with.

        5. Tap Pay now, and then tap Continue.

         

        Change your payment method for an existing Shop Pay Installments order:

        You can change your payment method on a Shop Pay Installments order while it's in repayment. Going forward, the new payment method will be used for payments on this order. If you want to update your payment method for multiple Shop Pay Installments orders, then you need to complete the steps below for each order.

        1. From the Home tab, tap the order that you want to change the payment method for.

        2. Tap View Installments, and then tap Payment options.

        3. Select the new payment method that you want to use. If you need to add a new payment method, then tap Use a different card, and complete the required fields. 


          Where can I find more information about Shop Pay Installments?

          • For information about an existing order or to ask for a refund, please contact our support at hello@intelligentchange.com.

          • For infomation about Shop Pay Installments payments and financing, such as why you might not have been approved, visit the Shop Pay Installments Help Center

          • For general info about the Shop Pay Installments experience, such as how it works and the purchase flow, email installments@shop.app

           

          We believe in a better tomorrow, a more productive and happier you. We create tools for the lifelong learners and doers because you are changing the world every day. We designed these tools with proven principles of positive psychology and daily accountability.

          This is why we are offering a 6-Month Money-Back Guarantee: if you do not feel Intelligent Change products* have shaped a better attitude towards productivity and happiness, simply email us at hello@intelligentchange.com so we can organize your return

          *Products eligible for the 6-month money-back guarantee include all of our tools. Tools include all journals, planners, affirmations, and games. The 6-month money-back guarantee does not apply to the candle, face oil, or accessories (pen, pen holder clip, hourglass, display stand, and tote bags).

           

          How do I return my order?

            1. Email us at hello@intelligentchange.com
            2. Include your name and order number
            3. Tell us which product(s) you want to return and the reason 


          We are pleased to extend a 20% discount on orders over 10 units, and a 30% discount on orders over 40 units. The discounts are automatically applied at checkout.

          ***Please note that bulk discount offer cannot be combined with sitewide sales or other coupons and discounts.***

           If you are interested in a custom request, please see more about customization options here to learn more and apply.

           

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          About Intelligent Change

          We create elevated, thoughtfully designed products to help you cultivate gratitude, build positive habits, and foster mindfulness to help you live a happier, more fulfilled life. We believe in the power of simple rituals. Our products help you live more intentionally, so you can actualize your dreams effortlessly. From cultivating a daily gratitude practice with The Five Minute Journal to improving your workflow with The Productivity Planner, we leverage research-supported frameworks that enable you to seamlessly integrate positive habits into your everyday life.